About Alinda

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Alinda Small

I have a  background in medical science, a Psychology degree and a Masters in Medicine Science and Sexual Health, from the University of Sydney. These qualifications allow me to work closely and effectively with those in need. My maturity, experience and training in both the Health Sciences and Psychology, allows me to assist clients with their relationships, sexual health and individual care.

Having been involved in the care and management of clients for many years, providing a professional, safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment is essential. I can assist couples to further improve their relationships, reduce conflict, overcome infidelity and learn to listen more actively with empathetically.

Additionally, further clinical training through The Gottman Institute, Terry Real (RLT) and others, enables me to assist couples and individuals wanting to bring change into their lives and relationships. The advanced training in the Gottman Method, and being a verified member of this technique, has helped many couples expand their relationships and rebuild with a strong foundation, and a rewarding emotional connection.

Couples often require communication skills to further enrich their relationship, recover from infidelity and learn to enhance their understanding of each other’s needs. Additionally offering support for individuals who want to break unhealthy relationship cycles or develop a clearer understanding of their own behaviours in relationships- can be in the form of Relationship Coaching. This area helps individuals get where they want to be with a programme guiding you all the way.

I am also a Sexual Health Therapist and a registered member of ASSERT (Australian Society of Sex Educators Researchers and Therapists) and ISSHM (International Society of Sexual Heath). Sexual Health Therapists are qualified counsellors, and healthcare professionals who have had extensive post graduate training in human sexuality, behaviour and relationships. Combining my strong academic background and extensive clinical experience- issues like Erectile Dysfunction, performance anxiety, delayed and premature ejaculation, porn and sex addiction, and painful sex or Vaginismus are areas that I am well versed in and bring a wealth of knowledge.

As a qualified Relationship Counsellor and Sex Therapist, I use specialised clinical skills and theoretical knowledge to help people deal with relationship issues and/or sexual difficulties or concerns. A focus on result driven therapy has provided many others with success, don’t hesitate to let me help you today- reach out and make the change you desire.

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Specialised Training 

- Bachelor of Psychological Science, majors in human relationships and sexual health.

-Masters in Medicine Science and Sexual Health, Medical Faculty of Sydney.

-Terry Real- Moving on From Betrayal.

-Expert Strategies for Treating Narcissism- National Institute for Clinical Application of Behavioural Medicine (NICABM). 

- Gottman Clinical Training Level 1 and Level 2, New York City

- Gottman Clinical Training- Treating the Trauma of Infidelity.

- Terry Real RLT Relationship Training- level 1 and 2

-Terry Real RLY, Working with Men

- Dr Margalis Fjelsted- Healing the family members of people with Borderline PD and NPD,

- Dr John Arden- Brain Therapy and Neuroscience, Planting the Seeds for a Healthy Brain,

  • EMDR ( Eye Movement Desensitising and Reprocessing) Skills for Trauma, Dr Jennifer Sweeton.
  • Working With Men- Terry Real RLT training.
  • How to work with the traumatised brain” – National Institute for Clinical Application of Behavioural Medicine (NICABM).
  • Neuropsychotherapy- Certificate for Clinicians- Dr Jennifer Sweeton
  • Seven Principles of Marriage Workshop Leader Qualification- The Gottman Institute.

Types of Counselling

Relationship Counselling

Same sex relationship therapy

Sex Therapy

Individual Counselling

Relationship Coaching

Narcissistic Recovery  Counselling

Pre-Marriage Program

Anger Management

IVF Counselling

Divorce Coaching

Online Counselling



My Education & Experience

Specialised Training

  • Bachelor of Psychological Science, majors in human relationships and sexual health.
  • Masters in Medicine Science and Sexual Health, Medical Sexual Health Faculty-University of Sydney.
  • Gottman Clinical Training Level 1 and Level 2, New York City
  • Gottman Clinical Training- Treating the Trauma of Infidelity
  • Terry Real RLT Relationship Training- level 1.
  • Terry Real RLY, Working with Men
  • Dr Margalis Fjelsted- Healing the family members of people with Borderline PD and NPD.
  • Dr John Arden- Brain Therapy and Neuroscience, Planting the Seeds for a Healthy Brain.
  • EMDR ( Eye Movement Desensitising and Reprocessing) Skills for Trauma, Dr Jennifer Sweeton.
  • Working With Men- Terry Real RLT training.
  • How to work with the traumatised brain” – National Institute for Clinical Application of Behavioural Medicine (NICABM).
  • Gottman Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work- Verified Leader
  • Terry Real- Moving on From Betrayal.
  • Expert Strategies for Treating Narcissism- National Institute for Clinical Application of Behavioural Medicine (NICABM). 

Types of Counselling

  • Relationship Counselling
  • Same-sex relationship therapy
  • Sex Therapy
  • Anger Management
  • Individual Counselling
  • Narcissism Counselling
  • Pre-Marriage Program
  • Online Counselling
  • Divorce Coaching/ Counselling
  • IVF Counselling

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Dymocks Building, Level 7, Suite 2, 424-430 George Street, Sydney, NSW, 2000 (Wellshare Centre -Please turn left when you exit the lift. Check in at reception via iPad - please wait in reception area and I will collect you just prior to our session).